Compound effect: Why should you never underestimate the power of compounding.

Domino effect: 🁭🁯 Do you know about the domino effect? If you know about it, then we'll done if you don't then let me explain. So, in the book 'The One Thing' by Gary Keller. He mentions that " In 1983, Lorne Whitehead wrote in the American Journal of Physics that he’d discovered that domino falls could not only topple many things, but they could also topple bigger things. He described how a single domino is capable of bringing down another domino that is actually 50 per cent larger. " You won't understand the power of the domino effect by a simple definition so let me explain it to you. Consider a domino 2 inches tall. So according to the definition, a domino can bring down another domino which is 50 percent larger. So the 2-inch domino can bring down a 3-inch domino and the 3-inch domino can bring down a 4.5-inch domino.  It's a geometric progression and you will be surprised to know that the 17th domino can topple a domino almost the size of the L
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You are probably not that attractive

Skip to the conclusion part if you want only the main details. If you want to learn in-depth then read the complete blog.
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The average man just wastes his time scrolling on Instagram, stalking girls, watching pointless videos on YouTube, eating junk food all day, doesn't work out, sits like a sloth all day, isn't attractive and doesn't even try to improve himself.

Now after reading the above paragraph you probably thought of other people and not of yourself because you probably think you are better than the average but that's just your big fat ego telling you that you are better than average. Let me tell you something, I think most of the men after reading this passage must have probably thought of others and not of themselves.

This is because just like you the majority of the people have a big ego due to which they consider themselves better than the average.

Let's see if you are higher than average

Consider a scale of 1-10.
In this scale 10 is the most attractive man (eg. Zayn Malik)

9 is also a very attractive man just behind the most attractive man.

8 is a very attractive actor consider Ryan Gosling.

7 is a model

6 is an instagram influencer

5 is the most attractive guy in your locality

4 is the most attractive guy in your friend circle

So it is obvious that most guys (I mean average) fall in 3

Now to make the picture more clear here's a picture:
Girls consider this as an average looking man.

If you are better looking then him then give yourself a 4 or 5 or atmost 6.
I think I have opened your eyes by now. You probably thought that "The average guy is a 5 and I am better looking than the average so I must atleast be a 7, so girls should be falling for me.

But now you knwo that you are about a 3-5 in the scale.

Something to keep in mind:
I am not telling you these facts so that you become disheartened and think that you can never attract someone. I am just telling this to you to let you know that you need to improve a lot and let go off your ego.
Conclusion:

1) You probably have a lot of ego.
2) You are not that attractive.
3) If you are better looking than the man above then you are almost a 4-5.

All these information is from a youtuber named 1stman
Do check him out. 


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  1. Mizan18 March 2022 at 18:18

    You know what im going let go of my ego and say that im not a attractive but starting from today i will do the hard work to improve my attractiveness. Thank you for this blog man I need a remind that I'm "not that guy"

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    1. Ayon Mitra20 March 2022 at 15:32

      Continue doing the hard work (especially when you don't feel like it)

      Delete

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