Compound effect: Why should you never underestimate the power of compounding.

Domino effect: 🁭🁯 Do you know about the domino effect? If you know about it, then we'll done if you don't then let me explain. So, in the book 'The One Thing' by Gary Keller. He mentions that " In 1983, Lorne Whitehead wrote in the American Journal of Physics that he’d discovered that domino falls could not only topple many things, but they could also topple bigger things. He described how a single domino is capable of bringing down another domino that is actually 50 per cent larger. " You won't understand the power of the domino effect by a simple definition so let me explain it to you. Consider a domino 2 inches tall. So according to the definition, a domino can bring down another domino which is 50 percent larger. So the 2-inch domino can bring down a 3-inch domino and the 3-inch domino can bring down a 4.5-inch domino.  It's a geometric progression and you will be surprised to know that the 17th domino can topple a domino almost the size of the L
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You are not so special

You are the main character of your own life and think others are just side characters in your story, so you consider yourself to be special. This is an emotional approach to your life.

This blog is for men btw.

Let's take a more logical approach. World population will reach 8 billion in 2023. So I will just consider the population to be 8 billion. Out of that 8 billion, 4 billion are men and 4 billion are women. So in such a large scale do you think you will even be special. You are just like an ant, no one knows you. You will only be special if you are the top 5% of men.


The rating scale:

Now let's talk about a big problem, the rating scale. In a scale of 1-10 many consider 5 to be the average but it's not. In the sclae of 1-10, 3 is where most of the people lie. This has been explained properly in a video by the youtuber named 1stman. check out the video.

So, 3 is where majority of the males lie. But majority of males think that they are better than average, but it's not, most of them are average or even worse than average but only a few individuals are special enough to be better than average.

You can easily check this by going out in public and noticing if the real top level women notice you or not. Most probably they will not and that's a small indicator that you are not so special. If they notice you then probably you look funny or you are just handsome.

But remember only being handsome isn't going to work because there are many handsome guys out there. You need to be something more than handsome.


How to be special:
In order to reach that special scale, you need to work hard as men. As men majority of us have not been gifted with beauty, riches, body etc. We need to work our ass off to get to the special level.

We need to work on our facial structure, to be attractive, we need to work on our business or 9-5 job to be rich, we need to work on our fitness to get an aesthetic physique and many more things to be taken care of. If only all these boxes are ticked then we can call ourselves a special man who gets all the women attention.

But majority of us don't even care to be better. We watch reels, tiktok, youtube shorts all day and then we eat shitty food all day and then we consider ourselves as special. How tf can it be, we are not special unless we are extremely lucky (By lucky I mean born in a rich family and with a handsome face) but majority of us don't have luck on our sides.

So we must work our a*s off to get to that special male level. 

Reminder
This blog is in no sense a negative blog. It was just to open your eyes about this cruel world we live in and in order to live a better life we must work hard and be that special man whom everyone looks up to.

So instead of wasting your time watching girls all day. Create a routine and stick to it as much as you can. Do your most important task daily and one day you will surely be classified as a special man. 

But by that time don't consider yourself special (unless you are born in a rich family and with an attractive face) and work on yourselves dudes.


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